Move On
Jag läste ett inlägg om en mamma som hade två små barn. Hon och hennes man, som var far till hennes barn, hade gjort slut och kort därefter flyttade han in hos deras granne. En kvinna med ett eget barn. Tanken på att han försummade sina egna barn och agerade styvpappa till den nya kvinnans barn fick henne att må illa.
Det hade gått ett år och eftersom deras förhållande, på tio år, hade tagit så mycket av hennes tid hade hon förlorat kontakten med sina vänner. Hon kände sig oerhört ensam och fruktansvärt sviken av både mannnen och kvinnan som först spelat vän till hela deras familj. Hon känner sig "lost" och har fortfarande inte kunnat gå vidare. Hon bor med barnen hemma hos sin mamma, då hon skriver inlägget.
Kvinnan fick flera svar...
"First of all what comes around goes around."
"What makes you think they're having a great rosey life? She wanted him so bad, what if she gets a nightmare." "It may take a while but the good "guy" always win in the end"
"Get out of bed, clean your house up, smile at your kids & continue to do what you used to do. Dont let this jerk take your spirit away." "You have NOT lost your life. You have shed a loser that would have strung you along for another 10 years more than likely. You have a right to be sad, but not to let him have the last laugh on you! Start thinking about yourself and your kids instead of him. Fill your mind with things you can do for YOURSELF now. Get dolled up, call some of your old friends, start going out. When he sees you no longer need him, he will regret what he has done. He has a history with you, and sometimes it's hard to let go of that. But you know what they say..."living well is the best revenge." Right now he pretty much knows you are still pining away for him, which gives him control over you. Take back the reigns, and your self-respect, and you will attract the kind of man you deserve! And who knows, he might start sniffing around again. Then it will be YOUR choice whether to tell him to shove off or not! Good luck"
Det hade gått ett år och eftersom deras förhållande, på tio år, hade tagit så mycket av hennes tid hade hon förlorat kontakten med sina vänner. Hon kände sig oerhört ensam och fruktansvärt sviken av både mannnen och kvinnan som först spelat vän till hela deras familj. Hon känner sig "lost" och har fortfarande inte kunnat gå vidare. Hon bor med barnen hemma hos sin mamma, då hon skriver inlägget.
Kvinnan fick flera svar...
"First of all what comes around goes around."
"What makes you think they're having a great rosey life? She wanted him so bad, what if she gets a nightmare." "It may take a while but the good "guy" always win in the end"
"Get out of bed, clean your house up, smile at your kids & continue to do what you used to do. Dont let this jerk take your spirit away." "You have NOT lost your life. You have shed a loser that would have strung you along for another 10 years more than likely. You have a right to be sad, but not to let him have the last laugh on you! Start thinking about yourself and your kids instead of him. Fill your mind with things you can do for YOURSELF now. Get dolled up, call some of your old friends, start going out. When he sees you no longer need him, he will regret what he has done. He has a history with you, and sometimes it's hard to let go of that. But you know what they say..."living well is the best revenge." Right now he pretty much knows you are still pining away for him, which gives him control over you. Take back the reigns, and your self-respect, and you will attract the kind of man you deserve! And who knows, he might start sniffing around again. Then it will be YOUR choice whether to tell him to shove off or not! Good luck"
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